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You're correct. I was just trying to phrase things from a more supportive lens. The alternative was that my response was give an example that would involve me in some way which would imply that I should also be someone who is thanked for allowing this site to exist through being your partner. My intention was to clarify, not to pull rank which would then belittle someone else.
The reason I know you don't view me poorly is because I know you love me and shit tbh but also I do agree with Rain everyone should be thankful to us. What happens when you give women the right to yap is she doesn't know how to take the L and say thank you.